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One of the best cunnilingus methods that most guys don't even know about and certainly don't know how to do is called The Count.

What is “The Count”?

Most women have a certain number of strokes of the tongue that it takes to get them starting to feel stimulated. This number is normally between 15 and 20 but let's not get too scientific about it. The key is for you stimulate the clitoris for that number of strokes and then stop for a brief moment. This series of starting and stopping after 12 to 20 licks is the essence of the count. You want to do this series of stops and starts using the count about 5 or 6 times. Hopefully by then she will start to show signs of getting very hot. After each series you may want to escalate the speed and the pressure by going a tad bit faster and harder the next time around. The count is all about getting her clitoris so aroused that it wants to come out on its own and join the party!

The count is best used on a woman who has a clitoris that is hidden underneath the clitoral hood and needs to be stimulated before coming out.

Sideways or Up and Down?

Use both. The sideways motion is done with a sliding tongue across the top of the clitoris until the head comes out visibly. When the head does show itself you can go right across it in the same fashion, side to side focusing on the top. Again, this is all assuming that your lady does not have a clitoris that is already exposed on its own without stimulation.

The second motion, up and down, is done from the front of the clitoris all the way up to the top and back down. It is almost as if you are taking small scoops of an ice cream cone with just the tip of your tongue. You want to keep that going consistently for the entire count and then stop.

What if she gets upset with all the starting and stopping?

The count is not for everyone. Some people don't agree with the teasing aspect of starting and stopping. One key to always remember is that you don't want to keep her waiting too long, 5 to 10 seconds should be plenty. If she gets really cranky from the pauses then that may in fact be your signal to go all out an take her over the top. The next time she thinks you are going to stop you give her a surprise not stopping. Instead you keep going and push her over the edge. You can't tease her forever. Give her the pleasure she truly deserves.

Fact: A woman's clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings, while the head of a man's penis only has about 4,000.

She is nearly 2 times as sensitive to your touch!

Your lovely lady is over 3 times more likely to achieve orgasm when you go down on her than when you have traditional intercourse. That's right 3 times more likely.

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One of the best cunnilingus methods that most guys don't even know about and certainly don't know how to do is called The Count.]]> Sexuality http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=79 Tue, 15 Dec 2009 08:07:11 -0800 Tantra - 10 Keys to the Art of Pleasure http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=78
Being a “pleasure artist” is a natural human talent. Tantra teaches that the body is a temple. One of its gifts is the ability to feel pleasure through the senses--sight, sound, smell, touch and taste. While it requires practice, pleasure is an art worth developing. Some of the skills that enhance pleasure are; a finely tuned sensory awareness, the capacity to enjoy pleasure for extended periods of time and presence. How much pleasure do you allow into your life?

According to women's health expert Dr. Christiane Northrup, the author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom, pleasure is crucial. It is an essential nutrient that you need every day to maintain and/or regain your health. Pleasure releases health-promoting hormones. She suggests you can make the world a better place by giving yourself pleasure daily.

Pleasure like any art requires practice. Why? Because we live in a culture that rewards hard work and judges those that pursue pleasure. People often associate pleasure with guilt. That's why practicing pleasure may bring up resistance. You may wonder, “Am I being selfish or indulgent?” If resistance arises, be with it. Allow the feelings to arise and express them in healthy ways, such as through movement, art or sharing them with a friend. As you release resistance, you may discover you have an even greater capacity for experiencing pleasure than you did before. Integrate pleasure into your life. When you commit to practicing pleasure regularly, you will become an expert at it.

Here are 10 Keys for Practicing the Art of Pleasure:

1. Practice being present and aware in each moment, instead of living in the past or future. The present moment is the only place pleasure can happen

2. Open your body fully. Breathe into your belly, let go of tension. Do this several times a day and you will begin to notice if you start to contract.

3. Take pleasure breaks often during the day. Discover the simple pleasures that you have been overlooking. Learn what gives you pleasure.

4. Hone your sensory awareness. Focus on a particular sense and see how much you can engage and expand it. Keep a sensory awareness journal. See how much you can increase your awareness and capacity for pleasure.

5. See through fresh eyes. Be curious and innocent, like a child. Children find wonder in the world. See the mystery all around you.

6. Challenge yourself to feel pleasure in unlikely situations, like while stuck in traffic or sitting through a long meeting. If you notice negative thoughts, pause, and make a conscious choice to refocus your attention. Focus on your breathing, let go of resistance and begin to circulate your breath throughout your body, expanding your aliveness. Feel your energy beginning to flow beyond your physical body. See how expansive you can be.

7. Be generous to yourself and others. Give yourself a 3-5 minute mini-massage at least once a day. Recognize the power of touch and find a friend who wants to trade massages. Hug often, share touch with those open to receiving it.

8. Eat slowly and allow yourself to savor each bite. Food can be erotic.

9. Look deeply into your beloved's eyes, see beyond form and personality. Know they are the Divine, in form. Let them be a mirror for you to see the Divine in yourself as well.

10. Celebrate your body by giving yourself orgasms. Orgasms heal. They release tension and produce hormones that balance the body-mind. They give you a sense of well-being. When you orgasm regularly, you vibrate with pleasure. As you radiate pleasure, others feel it and begin to experience pleasure as well. The world is starving for joy and pleasure. You can't make other people change, but you can change yourself. Through your willingness to practice pleasure, others will be inspired. Celebrate pleasure everyday and as you practice these 10 Keys and see how your life changes.

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About The Author
Crystal Dawn Morris is a Certified SkyDancing Tantra Teacher, intimacy coach and healer committed to sharing Tantra with the world. She teaches workshops, teleseminars and offers private coaching sessions in Sedona and Phoenix, AZ. She welcomes invitations to teach in other communities world-wide. She lives in Sedona, AZ where she practices yoga, meditates and writes.

If you'd like to receive more Tantra tips signup for a free monthly newsletter at http://www.TantraforAwakening.com. Read the Tantra Tip of the Day at http://www.TantraGal.blogspot.com.By Crystal Dawn Morris

Being a “pleasure artist” is a natural human talent. Tantra teaches that the body is a temple. One of its gifts is the ability to feel pleasure through the senses--sight, sound, smell, touch and taste. While it requires practice, pleasure is an art worth developing. Some of the skills that enhance pleasure are; a finely tuned sensory awareness, the capacity to enjoy pleasure for extended periods of time and presence. How much pleasure do you allow into your life?]]> Sexuality http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=78 Tue, 22 Sep 2009 08:20:21 -0700 Make Her Orgasm - 3 Things She Might Not Have Told You She Likes In Bed http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=77
1. Talk Dirty To Her - Yes, many women like this. You should begin slowly and put a lot of emphasis on how good SHE makes you feel.

2. Get Rough - No, I'm not talking about smacking her around. If she likes that, you probably already know it. I'm talking about dominating her. Hold her down while you do her, or go at it fast and furious when orgasm is approaching. She likes to feel like you are driven mad with desire just by being close to her. This is one way of conveying those feelings.

3. Multiple Orgasms - Most women are capable of achieving multiple orgasms. The first orgasm during direct stimulation of the clitoris, usually oral sex. Once she has had a clitoral orgasm, stimulation of the G-Spot, either with a sex toy, by intercourse, or by hand, can lead to more orgasms.

Not all women are the same, but these three things are so well liked, that it will be worth your while to find out if your woman likes them too!Usually the best approach to finding out what a woman wants in bed is by asking her. However, here are a few things she might have forgotten to mention.]]> Sexuality http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=77 Mon, 24 Aug 2009 11:14:41 -0700 Lasting Longer in Bed - 3 Strategies For Improved Endurance http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=76
This article provides advice for lasting longer in bed tonight and for good. Good luck!

1. Don't Worry, Be Happy

A key to success with lasting longer in bed is to have a positive mental attitude. Think of it this way, at least you're having sex! Things could be way worse.

To be more serious for a moment, I understand that premature ejaculation is a serious issue. I suffered with it for years. But it does you no good to beat yourself up about it.

In order to start making real progress, you first need to start with a positive outlook.

The best way to do this is to imagine yourself lasting longer in bed. Imagine how it would look, how it would feel in the moment, how you would feel, and how your partner would feel.

So don't let negative thoughts, fears, and anxieties keep you down. If you can you're your head in the game, and visualize success, you're well on your way to achieving it.

2. Focus on Your Breathing

Breathing plays a critical role in improving your sexual stamina.

Be sure to focus on your breathing when you're in the act. This is important for a couple of reasons.

First, this takes your focus away from yourself and your nervousness. But it also calms down your body as well as your mind.

In technical terms, deep breathing helps to suppress your “fight or flight” response, which can trigger premature ejaculation.

The calmer and more relaxed you can be, the longer you'll last in bed.

3. Focus on Her Happiness

Are you starting to notice a theme? Stop thinking about yourself and worrying about whether or not you're going to last long enough.

Step back and think for a moment about why you're reading this article in the first place. If you're like me, then the reason you wanted to last longer was so that you could have a more fulfilling sex life and a deeper, more meaningful relationship with the woman in your life.

Well, it should go without saying then, that you're not going to achieve that ultimate goal if inside your own head the whole time. It's not like she's got a stop watch and is going to give you a prize if you pass the 5 minute mark or 10 minute mark or 30 minute mark...

Yes, it's important that you can last long enough to satisfy her. But you also want the sex to be high quality.

Ironically, if you focus on her and her happiness, this will help you achieve both of your goals.

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This article provides advice for lasting longer in bed tonight and for good. Good luck!]]> Sexuality http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=76 Thu, 25 Jun 2009 11:08:42 -0700 What Turns People On http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=75
1. Do you like music playing during sex?

Every woman who responded to this said yes, as did 95% of the men. The type of music varied but most liked something with a good, steady rhythm.

One respondent, NYCgirlygirl72 at twitter, made a statement worth repeating, “Music should inspire one to tap into their inner mojo.”

I liked this statement because finding your inner mojo can make sex so much better. My conclusion, finding the right music that speaks to you as a couple should enhance the atmosphere, therefore making sex better.

2. Should the man or the woman make the first move?

Perhaps not too surprising, the majority of people who responded felt like this should be something that both did. One man stated that it made him feel desired when she made the first move. One woman told me she enjoyed being the aggressor occasionally. It gave her a sense of power.

My conclusion, take turns seducing each other and don't fall into the routine of one person doing it every time.

3. How much foreplay do you like?

You guessed it. Women like more foreplay than men. Most women felt that foreplay should last as least 15 to 20 minutes. The men's answers varied from 'What's foreplay' up to an hour, with the majority feeling like 5 to 10 minutes was enough.

My conclusion, I'm a woman, foreplay should last at least 20 minutes.

4. Is sex better in a relationship or with a stranger?

95% of women felt sex was better with someone they had an emotional connection with, while only 75% of men felt that way.

My conclusion, not too surprising since for women sex starts in the head and being with a stranger can make it too stressful to get in the zone. She's too worried about how she looks, is she doing what he likes, etc.

For men, sex is more visual, making it easier to have great sex with a stranger. Though as you can see, the majority of men do find sex inside a relationship better.

If you have questions you would like to ask or would like to be included in future surveys, you can either follow me at twitter, Blogging_Kitten or send an email to content(at)adulttoystash.com

Thanks to those who helped with this survey!Lately I've been asking people questions about what turns them on. While the results are typical of what you would expect, it was interesting for me to hear why people feel the way they do. I thought I'd share some of the findings with you.]]> Sexuality http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=75 Fri, 24 Apr 2009 12:20:59 -0700 Sex Dolls - Safe Sex? Maybe Not (Humor) http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=74

As you may have seen in my last post, I now twitter, Blogging_Kitten. I have to say that twittering has also taught me a few things about blogging. For one, I think I need to quit being so formal and talk about things from a personal perspective more often. That said, you should bear in mind that the things I say here are my opinion and not necessarily those of Adult Toy Stash or anyone else.

I was out surfing the web today and stumbled across an interesting news item. Apparently some guy was robbing a sex shop and 'getting down' with the dolls.]]> Sex Toys http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=74 Sat, 18 Apr 2009 14:24:47 -0700 Chat: The Sex Toy Of The Future? http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=73
If you haven't heard of it, Twitter is a social network where you type short messages that your “followers” can see and respond to. If you are interested you can find me here: Blogging_Kitten

I tend to post about things I'm thinking or doing at the time. I also like to comment on other tweets. The whole thing is very new to me so bear with me as I learn.

I guess the question is, Does chat act as foreplay or a 'sex toy'? Are more people talking about sex than having it? I'd love to hear your comments.Chat is big on the internet. I used to chat alot. Now I twitter. Yes, I said twitter. No, twitter is not the newest kinky craze, though it does sound sexy doesn't it?

If you haven't heard of it, Twitter is a social network where you type short messages that your “followers” can see and respond to. If you are interested you can find me here: Blogging_Kitten]]> General http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=73 Wed, 15 Apr 2009 22:54:38 -0700 Rabbit Vibrators - Shopping Guide http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=72 nullI recently received an email from a couple asking what they should look for in a rabbit vibrator. For those who are unfamiliar with the rabbit, this vibrator generally has an insertable shaft and a clitoral stimulator that is usually in the shape of a rabbit (but not always). Some differences in rabbit vibrators are related to price but not all. Here are a few things that may help you next time you go shopping.

Rotating Beads or Pearls
This is an option that some women love. The rotating beads are on the insertable shaft and, well, rotate. The stimulation can be very exciting. Not all rabbit vibrators come with this feature. You will be able to tell by the product description and/or picture if this is an option.

G-Spot Stimulation
Some rabbit vibrators are curved at the tip for added g-spot stimulation. This option is popular for some women, but many women feel they don't need this extra stimulation. It is a matter of preference.

Waterproof
I recommend a waterproof vibrator even if you don't plan to ever use it in the water. It makes clean-up oh so much easier. Be sure to check the product description for waterproof if this is a feature you want.

Remote Control
Most vibrator buttons and controls are located on the base of the vibrator itself. Remote control vibrators offer a control separate from the unit. This is handy for partner play as they can operate the remote. Some models are wireless making this even more convenient.

Price
Why are some vibrators more expensive than others? Often it has to do with the material used, the number of features, or the durability. As a rule, a higher priced vibrator will perform better and last longer. If you are new to rabbit vibrators, I wouldn't invest a large amount of money on one until you are sure it is right for you. A low or medium priced vibrator will operate just fine until you figure out exactly what features you want or whether or not you will even like it. OK, yeah, most women LOVE rabbit vibrators, but not all.

In conclusion, rabbit vibrators are the most popular sex toy among women for a reason. Even women who have difficulty achieving orgasm can often do so with this type of vibrator. If you've never tried one, now may be the time to do so and I hope these tips will help you pick out the right rabbit vibrator for you.

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I recently received an email from a couple asking what they should look for in a rabbit vibrator. For those who are unfamiliar with the rabbit, this vibrator generally has an insertable shaft and a clitoral stimulator that is usually in the shape of a rabbit (but not always). Some differences in rabbit vibrators are related to price but not all. Here are a few things that may help you next time you go shopping.]]> Sex Toys http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=72 Tue, 10 Feb 2009 10:55:59 -0800 Sexy Valentine's Day Gift Ideas http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=71 Tired of roses and chocolate for Valentine's Day? How about spicing things up with a sexy gift! Here are a few ideas for great Valentine's Day gifts.

Lingerie - While this may be considered a common gift for Valentine's Day, you can't rule out that it is appealing! Men, women love receiving lingerie and women, men love seeing you in it. This is a gift either partner can give to the other.

Sexy Games - A sexy game is a great gift for Valentine's Day. They come in all varieties so you are sure to find something that you and your partner will like.

Massage Products - How about giving your partner the ultimate massage. From massage gloves to tasty, edible oils, even the inexperienced can give a fantastic massage.

Adult Toys - There are a lot of adult toys that both you and your partner can enjoy together. Perhaps a cockring that vibrates. How about a remote control vibrator where he controls the action?

With a little bit of thought, imagination, and smart shopping, you can turn this Valentine's Day into one that both of you will remember.

Tired of roses and chocolate for Valentine's Day? How about spicing things up with a sexy gift! Here are a few ideas for great Valentine's Day gifts.]]> Sexuality http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=71 Mon, 19 Jan 2009 11:17:25 -0800 5 Ways To Heat Up The Holidays http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=70 nullThe holidays are hectic and sex can often be one of those things we put off until later. Add stress to the mix and the little sex that you are getting is probably not as good as it could be. Here are some tips for a sexier holiday.

1. In most parts of the country, it is cold right now. What better time for a fire and some serious cuddling? Fires are romantic and help us decompress. If you have a fireplace, use it!

2. How about a nice hot shower or bath together? This is another wonderful way to unwind and heat up.

3. Get each other a sexy gift. Lingerie, vibrators, cockrings, lubes, oils, all make wonderful gifts.

4. We often indulge our sweet tooth at this time of year. How about bringing a decadent dessert into the bedroom and eating it off of each other's body?

5. How about a sexy game? You can either give one as a gift or make one up. Perhaps design a coupon book offering 'sexy acts' they can cash in on.

These are just a few ideas to help you heat things up during the holidays.

Happy Holidays!

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The holidays are hectic and sex can often be one of those things we put off until later. Add stress to the mix and the little sex that you are getting is probably not as good as it could be. Here are some tips for a sexier holiday.]]> Sexuality http://adulttoystash.com/blog/index.php?itemid=70 Mon, 15 Dec 2008 09:44:14 -0800